In control of your self !!!!

What is the end of achievement in this material world. Of course, we could done our selves with the achievement of  Nirvana, yet we will be fortunate enough to attain that, it is wise enough to be good with the life we are spending as much extent possible.

People comes to your life, stay variable length of time and go as modes of demise and non-demise. Some we fall in love, some to fall in pray, some just get ignored. Actually our lives revolves and moves with the interactions and communications we keep with the people around. We don't keep relation with others, it is quite freaky, if so.

We define our lives based on the quality and degree of relationships we keep with others, thus making them decide who you are. This is the actual reason for intimidation we possess on all of our actions. Will this be approved ? Do I look ok ? etc etc. This mumble jumble, gives good as well as the bad. 

It is spineless to say, I'm been controlled, but fact to the matter is we are, for every single way, unless you are in control of your self for most possible extent.

Now what ? we keep getting intimidated, controlled and make us do good and bad both. Now what ? seriously.

We need to choose the correct people and be with them.

Choose what do you like in which way, then choose the people, that is the best way to be in control your self! seriously!!!