Taking care of the life

Life of current earth dwellers, turns out to be more disastrous than their earlier generations. Other than generic survival issues, they are suffering from lack of being trendy, job insecurity, maintain the foundation of family, being busted day to day.
it seems like, old survival tactics and methods are emerging in a different outlook in order to suffocate and get rid of the less fortunate and less capable. Capability in current society is not termed for physical capability or birth right. yet it is somewhat birth right but right is not granted yet received by form of business and influence, which are not symbols of fair play.
simple example, it is no wonder that we see people get away by doing activities which are not law abiding, using their connections making truth or justice unnoticed.
further, how much we being compared, dishonored or showed off simply because that unfortunate is not in a position afford the "luxuries" and yet being judged by that.
this is why i have made a judgement about the current social set up is governed by the basic human instincts originated from the beginning. may be as humans even though we claimed civilized,  we have never dropped those as our guiding principles.
Starting to learn fight and survive ???

if there is good governance for real, most of use would not be worried about much of the thing. the very people munching with the word, are the one who always forget to assess them selves.
if the good governance to be made a reality, it should be practiced by each and every one of us, with the full intention. workaround is, who manage people and take crucial decision, take the first step and implement and give a lasting example for others to follow.

Understanding what to do and not to do

Few days back, in news, a woman was allowed to get down from the bus heading to Galle in the highway. Driver was fined or acquitted to court what ever. driver has broke a rule specific to highway, yet a custom normal citizen will play while on road.
Citizens' are encouraged to follow the highway rule and forget about being culturally accustomed individual. is this the  right way to move forward ?

End of a year

At the end of a year as of current use. even though i don't celebrate, elements around me, brace them selves for  anew beginning etc etc thus affecting my environment and my responses to it. beginning is always fresh. it gives you a new way of thinking and one would be more geared up for it.
if this is the scenario, then we should make every day new beginning. but how are we to find new things to do every day, when we are stuck with same old stuff we used to do ?
it is our way of thinking that should be changed. we should look at things differently at least to intervals of a day.
it is not easy as said, yet promising thing to follow and adopt.

Days with people

What people do should be overridden by what people really want to do. Often start things we often love to, like to do. we may not end up exactly the things we like to do yet, at least portion of it would be part of our likeness.
when the time goes on we move on. we move on to a level where it is just more than what you want to do, yet what you compelled to do. one get trapped to a box of what he or she is doing making any other way difficult or risky. with the fear of we will lose everything we have achieved, most of us will not take different avenue of carrier even we admire, know other types of exciting, more giving careers, work to be done exist.
if we decide to stay, will give returns at certain level, but do we know the exact amount of opportunity cost it carries, with relevant to other paths, avenues we would have taken.
this is not simple as it said or sounds. given the other choices we make in our lives, for the career i may have taken a calculated risk in order to get a piece of mind considering every thing going around.
Yet, the good question still remains large. we are not happy with our work, what we have to do. we don't like the people around and it takes our toll, but we stay and we change into another level of same career path and no change in the basic has happened.
we remain with two options. One discussed above, change the career path or doing things we like to do in parallel. consider we chose the second option then the trick is making sure that enough returns are generated that would not discourage us. that return not necessary be money but one should have a way of earning.

People can be happy for many reasons. Personal accomplishments, family moments and accomplishment of any clique, group a person belongs to. Getting a promotion, ending up a project,being a hero in the office or in the neighborhood are great achievements. they stick by the true meaning of achievement  which is one should show and use effort in earning it.
How about the achievements one make as a man or a woman, that would be the ultimate goal of being born to the human world. why we have the less value for those, it is because they are given? or nobody give a damn about them.
In a world where old get revalued and implemented, is not this the time for giving the true value for those achievements as well.

Work is the bread for our survival. But often, we struggle to accept the fact yet most of the time in denial. Effects of unemployment should not be never tested unless a back up is there.
Handling the work, when we are told of to be trendsetters and problem solvers etc, is an erring experience when told environment is not given.
Not every one is a Steve Jobs, nor they will be. Designer, creator should prevail the "boss" in you. it is the driving and success factor for every ones life.
Handling your life and work is a must yet no definite methodologies are derived at. but we do it, most of the time at the expense of one, normally the life and family as they do love you for real.

Your family is the one normally gives up the time, opportunity for you. Should n't we reward them back more often ?