got treated well or "got treates well" ?

we hurt people knowingly or not at different scales. most of the time we do not realise either we hurt someone or degree of hurt we cause
but we get a first hand experience when it is the time for us to take the beating.
it ls not easy to change society though it is the right thing, but more of the realistic approach is change your self and be resilient. adopt the change and embrace the change in your life. balance between what you want to be and what is expected. you are a winner and an achiever if the balance is made and you have made peace and comfortable with the balance.