Patience

Sometimes i wonder what patience can do to a person and its influential surrounding. When you are taken for ride or taken for granted remedy for once console is patience. Being angry or petty will not be solving any of the issues either short or long run.
So be patient when world around you start to trembling. It will be one of the best things you could be doing to yourself.

You, who you are

Been beaten by all angels of life, one day i thought i'll be different. more precisely copy what others do.
Believe me it was hard and I was going no where, what a plan.
Irrespective to your intentions and goals in mind, like a tree branch position back to its original, even though you drag it down, you be you.
Is it worth the effort ? it depends. if you are to quit smoking then yes. One should look at what exactly want to achieve and does it agrees with you, support your consciousness then you could proceed accordingly, only then you would be able to absorb the fact that you are changing. Changing for good.

Piecing together

Our lives, rather than one big stream, it is more like a collection of items, events and memories. each event has a start point and end. we pick up from end of one and working on the next. does not have an idea of how things started, yet next, next, it is all about choices. choices we cherish and regret over a time scale. we make those choices and inevitably define our life and who we are.

we claim our  lives either successful or not, by collectively looking at these bits and pieces and end result affected upon us.

you either make choices upon your will or not. most of the time one is compelled to make choices pertaining to different environmental facts he needs to be answering and reacting to. this is may be his responsibility or gut feeling. father is compelled to bare the brunt from his boss, simply because he is to keep the job so he could feed his child. by way of help, you have been given a relief (monitory or not), but lived by the terms of the lender. above are common situations we come upon and listen into which classic examples of adopting to change and change it self. it is a known fact people make much drastic choices just to keep their heads up in water.

lets get cracking and make the right choices. ironic ? i think so...!

be little different

now we are accustomed to things which seems like part of our life. now this get boring and it is necessary to find something that interesting.
how things make you interested is a funny thing. it is more about the experience rather than the action. if our same set of actions be making a different kinda of experience then we would enjoy
so in pursue of new actions, it is quite important to explore new ways to enjoy our existing ways as well

from Sunday to Monday!

it is sunday. day with pity and fun, collaborated together in a fine way. Fun, yes that is understandable, sad/ pity ? it is so understandable. 

For some day may not be sad as said, but i'm pretty sure for very most of them it is sad. 

may be it is not very needed but have we ever thought why we are been felt like that.

Yes there is the holiday factor, spending two whole days out of office and monday makes us anxious and not so pleasant. simple answer, we hate our work, may be there is difference in degree which explains people are different in hating.

One thing i don't get is, job is our lifeline, it is what keeps us fed and nurtured. so why to dislike it so much ? pretty confusing is n't it?

is it genetics ? or are we supposed to hate so the work would get done, without being emotional about it. Unlike any other activity, job is something we ought to perform quite frequently. if we are to be emotional like in an event of a marriage or similar, there is a good chance that it would not work and no output be generated.
don't we have any other way to overcome this, just face it, we spend a very good amount of our lives doing our job. making it a good experience, will only be betterment of ourselves.

now and then

it came into my mind that all the management thoeries we learn could be adopted pretty easily to our lives. i may not be the first one to notice it yet it is very interesting.
in an organization we try to understand the current position and the next position need to be. we all begin at a simple position. we become different based on the next level we wanted.understanding the next position is a different thing all together but it is interesting to study what we do in order to move to the next level.
we engaged in a complex process which includes a lot of innovations and decision makings good or bad.this is a continuous process that we keep on doing until it get successful. needless to say it is not always happen what we expected. then what we do? do we stop? no not yet. we compromise something we are ought to do. something that determine our survival as a success and not as a failure and thrown into street. it is not the end result or the beginning that who we are but complex process that we employ intermediate time and our capacity in compromise plays a biggeer role most importantly.

life in a day

depreciated life resulted by extended work load is remembered and forgotten like a seizure yet enjoying the moment. a brief enjoyment for the life starting from very next day