Our lives, rather than one big stream, it is more like a collection of items, events and memories. each event has a start point and end. we pick up from end of one and working on the next. does not have an idea of how things started, yet next, next, it is all about choices. choices we cherish and regret over a time scale. we make those choices and inevitably define our life and who we are.
we claim our lives either successful or not, by collectively looking at these bits and pieces and end result affected upon us.
you either make choices upon your will or not. most of the time one is compelled to make choices pertaining to different environmental facts he needs to be answering and reacting to. this is may be his responsibility or gut feeling. father is compelled to bare the brunt from his boss, simply because he is to keep the job so he could feed his child. by way of help, you have been given a relief (monitory or not), but lived by the terms of the lender. above are common situations we come upon and listen into which classic examples of adopting to change and change it self. it is a known fact people make much drastic choices just to keep their heads up in water.
lets get cracking and make the right choices. ironic ? i think so...!